My Insights

My Fears

1. Helplessness: I feel as if I am a helpless weakling fledgeling who is being devoured slowly by the powerful vulures
2. Perfectionism: I need to twist, mold and make myself into someone acceptable to others
3. Pull to belong: I feel I have to belong to a group and I will do all sort of pleasing, especially for the most influencial people, to attain that goal
4. I am not important: Ihave accepted this notion that if I want to belong to a group, I should just follow what the most influencial people say